Gogo jili 777,Recharge Every day and Get Bonus up-to 50%! https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/ Tue, 12 Apr 2022 03:51:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.2 By: Nathan https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-632 Thu, 23 Oct 2008 05:07:23 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-632 Joel: I would say it is a means that transforms the ends.

Radhe: Thanks so much for your comment. Good to know about the Lipps connection—I’d like to look into that. I would be a bit skeptical about the chances of actually practicing the pure empathy you speak of, really getting into another’s shoes. But there is the hope of glimpses, which remind us how much farther we have to go to understand the other. I admire how Levinas takes the transcendence of God as a way to speak of the transcendence of others. Your distinction between empathy and sympathy warns of an important danger—the thought, no matter who is in power and who is not, that empathy need only be a one-sided affair.

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By: Joel Dietz https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-631 Wed, 22 Oct 2008 21:18:58 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-631 By your definition ’empathy’ is a means, not an end. Correct?

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By: Radhe Krishan https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-630 Wed, 22 Oct 2008 19:49:41 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-630 Empathy is the ability to understand another person’s feelings and experience. It has been said that “to empathize is to see with the eyes of another to hear with the ears of another and to feel with the heart of another.”
In our day to day life, we come across many different people who hold many different viewpoints. To deal most effectively with those who have a deferent opinion to our own, empathy is an important communication technique to develop.
The origin of the word empathy dates back to the year 1897, when German psychologist Theodore Lipps coined the term “einfuhlung”(literally means “in feeling). He used the term to describe the emotional appreciation of another’s feelings. Empathy is a balanced curiosity leading to a deeper understanding of another human being; stated another way, empathy is the capacity to understand another person’s experience from that person’s frame of reference.
More simply stated “empathy is the ability to put oneself in another’s shoes.”
In order to develop empathy one must realize how difficult it is to practice this interpersonal skill. Empathy requires that we extend ourselves beyond the level of cultural and sociological understanding and try to make connections on the level of individual personality. Our own moods, feelings, emotions and attitudes change constantly, and it is even more challenging to predict the others from a different culture. Practicing empathy is a psychologically and emotionally demanding interpersonal skill, but one that is necessary for effective cross-cultural communication. Empathic communication is described as extending oneself into another person’s space in order to see things from the point of view of that person.
The ability to empathize is directly dependent on our ability to feel our own feelings and identify them.
If you have never felt a certain feeling, it will be hard for you to understand how another person is feeling. This holds equally true for pleasure and pain. If, for example, you have never put your hand in a flame, you will not know the pain of fire. If you have never felt rebellious or defiant, you will not understand those feelings. Reading about a feeling and intellectually knowing about it is very different than actually experiencing it for you.
Many people not know the differences between empathy and sympathy; I will present my understanding of the subject. Empathy means putting aside one’s own personal and cultural perspective of a situation and assuming an alternative perspective. Whereas sympathy carries connotations of pity and sufferer supporter social roles. Empathy assumes equality between two people or groups from different cultural backgrounds. While sympathy functions as a communicative strategy for those who share common values, empathy provides the best interface for cross cultural communication.

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By: Joel Dietz https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-607 Sat, 18 Oct 2008 17:41:40 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-607 I agree. I read extensively contemporary literature in fields in which I have worked professionally. If ever philosophy becomes one (this would be nice) certainly I will better acquaint myself with such persons.

Look forward to hearing more from you.

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By: Nathan https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-599 Fri, 17 Oct 2008 05:29:34 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-599 No—Rorty is still on my list of to-dos. I was hoping you could motivate me to finally crack The Mirror of Nature. It is true that reading old philosophers gets the highlights of the past (all the less important stuff got filtered out by memory), but there are certain things one can only get from contemporary folks. As much as analogies can help to bring older ideas to bear on present problems, they are only analogies.

I (perhaps obviously) tend to think of ideas from a historicist perspective rather than as eternal ideas.

Which is not to say I see no point in reading older stuff. I hope soon I’ll be able to show you the stuff I’ve been writing about medieval and ancient proofs for the existence of God.

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By: Joel Dietz https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-596 Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:55:32 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-596 Absolutely. Expect to be gathering timber for the rest of my life and am always interested in discussing parsing methods for finding the best trees — some sort of historical hermeneutic seems necessary to make an argument from tradition besides the default inheritance. Of course, if your inherited house is sturdy no reason you can’t just do add-ons — but the most important thing is always the foundation.

Unfortunately present parsing methods mostly ignore contemporary philosophers. Vintage is the only filtering mechanism I know that picks up innovation w/o excessive time investment. I wish I could say more on Rorty but am not capable at this moment. What is your take?

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By: Nathan https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-576 Tue, 14 Oct 2008 05:59:47 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-576 I appreciate so much of what you say here. So funny that you think in terms of memory houses! Reading Frances Yates on all that was one of the great formative moments for me. I’ve still got Paulo Rossi’s book on the subject waiting to be cracked. Because I also think of all this in terms of memory houses: I think of my house as so unfinished that many of your criticisms have felt beside the point—like saying “that doesn’t look like a framework at all” when I’m still driving back from Home Depot with a load of lumber in the back. I can understand the confusion—perhaps I have not properly contextualized some of my proposals.

Yet of course I cannot ignore what you say because interesting points are everywhere in it. And because conversation is the whole point of throwing my unfinished business onto the internet anyway. Probably someday I will regret it when this stuff gets me in trouble (I might have already offended some Muslims with it). Throughout, this discussion has been quite invigorating, forcing me to think hard about what I know and what I don’t.

I hope that we can appreciate that both of us are still at the lumber yard for at least parts of our houses. You sound like you’re saying you are too.

I forget if we’ve talked about it, but how productive have you found Rorty’s pragmatism as a contemporary expression?

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By: Joel Dietz https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-573 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 22:28:25 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-573 Nathan,

I’m sorry you find my remarks hurtful. I don’t mean to be so. I think of intellectual frameworks as something like the memory palaces and theatres of Ricci and Bruno we once discussed. Consequently I have a difficult time taking offense when persons critique mine and perhaps don’t realize how offensive I can be to others.

As for my houses on display, I’m also not particularly impressed with any that I have put forward. If you don’t have any to show yourself at the moment, perhaps you can tell me what aspects of what you have seen of mine that are insufficient or unappealing. I seem to be in a constant stage of building and rebuilding and always appreciate suggestions.

As for the argument from tradition, I wasn’t sure if you were making it or not. Most people default to the beliefs passed onto them by their parents and modify forwards (or even backwards) as they see fit. I don’t see anything wrong with this.

In my discussion of values, I don’t see all such as necessarily grounded in ‘first principles,’ as nice as this would be. To give an example of what I mean: if we, two citizens of Greenfield, believe that our town should be less polluted, this constitutes a shared value. Once we have a shared value, we can move forward and debate how to implement this. I may believe that it is best to fund programs in schools that encourage recycling, etc. You may believe a better option is to organize citizen patrols to pick up litter.

I’m sorry if what I suggest sounds astonishing but I mean exactly this with respect to pragmatism. Philosophical schools pick up large quantities of extra verbiage supposedly but often not even related to their founding principles. My project at the moment is simply to restate the founding principles of both James and Dewey within their historical context. Frankly, I’m not entirely capable and must do more serious study before I can.

Here is a quote from CTaylor:

As to the unfortunate fact that [William] James is neglected by contemporary academic philosophers, with a few honorable exceptions, this may just show that, alas, wide sympathy and powers of phenomenological description are not qualities for which the discipline has much place at present. But in spite of this, it seems to me that James… has trouble getting beyond a certain individualism.

As I understand James he claims that observable ethical behavior should be the prime factor in evaluating the benefit of religious experience. The problem, for me, is both the definition of the ‘ethical,’ and expanding this beyond individual persons. Which is why I present these snippets of my theories of cultural evolution.

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By: Nathan https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-571 Mon, 13 Oct 2008 06:41:14 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-571 I think you know well enough to recognize that what you have said—straight from parents, etc.—is a caricature of any sensible concept of tradition. And certainly mine, which has led me to differ from my parents enough to embrace a different religion.

I can’t really help not having a finished intellectual framework to present. But I have tried throughout this to illustrate the tendencies in my thinking over the years, which have some consistency, and I think, tiny bits and pieces of originality, such as is possible. I summarize it the best I can in the About page—an urge for experimentation with ideas and a view of that experimentation as a process partly beyond my own total, systematic control. I have tried to practice a discipline that is the intellectual equivalent of Gandhian Satyagraha—a conviction that the truth will best unravel itself when we deny that we are possessed of it. You, as I have said, are seeing my position as one of pure negativity, which it is not, just as critics have described Gandhi’s program as “passive,” which it was decidedly not.

Anyway, the more I attempt to defend myself, the less I seem to satisfy you, and indeed, the less appealing I find your expectations of me and your conception of the intellectual life. It may be more productive (“for the sake of man”?) to change the subject somewhat so we don’t have to keep reiterating hurtful remarks about what we are “not interested” about in one another.

For instance, I’d be eager to know more about your thinking on pragmatism—your sense of its failures and promise. Some links to your writing on the subject would be most welcome.

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By: Joel Dietz https://www.lelandquarterly.com/2008/10/empathy-in-action/comment-page-1/#comment-566 Sun, 12 Oct 2008 14:06:12 +0000 https://www.therowboat.com/?p=154#comment-566 What keeps me coming back? Empathy. ??

And, from an intellectual standpoint, I’m curious how and whether the tradition of American pragmatism (from which I also consider myself to hail) can be rehabilitated, despite the failure in many respects of its aims and techniques — or at least the failure to coherently restate what they mean for the century after James (and to some extent also Dewey, although I consider myself less in his intellectual lineage).

Also, I have a cause of sorts — to encourage American would be intellectuals to step back from present political agitation and consider more broadly the principles the nation was founded on and how and whether they can be restated for the coming century. Without such dialogue, which I firmly believe in, the only recourse is violence. Although I expect this in some measure, I work as best I can to minimize its occurrence.

Of course I am not interested in your intellectual framework — as you admit, it does not exist. Not a threat, but statement of fact. Nonetheless, I remain interested in dialogue, not for its own sake, but for the sake of man. Is this not, according to Jesus, why God also provided us the Sabbath?

Do we work in a tradition? Of course, but what is this tradition? We select out of it what we believe necessary for our purposes, but what is the hermeneutic we use to decide what these are and what is useful for them? That our parents believed the same thing is, for me, insufficient.

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